Knowing The Hindrances To A Successful Marriage: Part 1
There are really a lot of factors that can hinder marriage from becoming successful, as outlined below:
Research has proved that nagging is the greatest irritation in marriage. This is evidenced by the scores of people who divorced as a result of constant nagging. The negative part nagging plays in marriage is very tremendous. For instance, a nagging person can expose the partner to ridicule in the public. When you have such a person in the house, the place will always seem hot for the other partner and this type of thing make people to regularly stay out of their houses.
Some Nagging habits could be controlled especially if there is understanding in the house. But in most cases, it is always difficult to change someone who nags and that is why it is advisable; anybody in courtship should try to reconcile this type of negative attitude before marriage.
Looking back into the past
It is always expected that before one decides to get married the person must have made up his or her mind to be with that choice of partner forever. It is really not supposed to be a thing you just decide to go in temporary, just to test the ground to know how it is. For instance, it is wrong for anybody who is truly married, to start thinking that he or she would have preferred to marry some other person who is a millionaire, instead of the present person. It will be very unfortunate to think in this way because this is among the source of marriage instability. The disadvantage of this type of thinking in any marriage is that the person’s mind will be divided and the obligations expected of him or her in that marriage will not be observed. The person will become disobedient to the other partner, because that respect would no longer be there. He or she will not have much regard for the partner because the thought of who to prefer at that time have already taken the person and the partner will definitely become a no body.
Opening your eyes
It is very unfortunate that someone who passed through courtship for months or even years could turn around after marriage and begin to notice faults in the partner. This is unacceptable to the generality of people who were witness to that marriage. In fact you are expected to close your eyes once you get married, while you are supposed to open your eyes when you are not yet married so that you can be able to see any fault and possible correct the ones you can before going into the marriage proper.
When a woman in marriage, goes out of her matrimonial home to carry another man’s pregnancy, what does she expect to happen to her marriage. This is very unfortunate because this kind of thing can bring crises in a marriage. Always keep to your man.